Venting about bd .

Maria

So we split when our daughter was 2mo. For him starting to be abusive /into drugs etc. but I forgave and the first day when he got her I had separation anxiety as months went by for her leaving weekends I still got it but to calm me down I would text them the times she gets fed for REASSURANCES AS she’s 6mo I got fed up with her staying the night but I’m ok with them picking her up for the full day most moms wouldn’t do what I am doing ! And his mom “ she texts me when the baby eats as if she dosent trust me “ first off it’s my kid and u should be thankful enough that I let u have her for the whole day instead of 3 hrs . They didn’t like the idea of her not spending the night when she came and got her I told her she wasn’t I than text her to bring me her at 9 and she wouldn’t respond I got mad texted my bd to bring her he’s saying no so I’m mad that they have no respect! My mom ask me if baby coming later I start crying out of anger. She tells me why am I crying I tell her and she drives me to pick up my daughter ❤️ I got happy she’s my reason I can’t hold grudges anymore. But it just upsets me how they should be thankful that atleast she’s going to VIST! His mom than texts me this and I respond to her with this am I right for what I said yes, as I’ve said everyone raises their kids different so she needs to stop comparing what she did to hers with mine !! Than her husband said to just not have baby go over at all if she won’t spend the night what kind of bs is that ,