Moms in quarantine

Hey everyone! I need your opinions. I currently have a 4 month old baby. My husband and I have been isolated since covid started. We don’t allow family/friends in our house. We order our groceries online and have them delivered. The only time we really go out is to see the pediatrician. I have been getting a lot of pressure from our families on when can they hold our son. We have been socially distancing in the back yard with them but everyone wants to hold him. I can’t really blame them because he really is adorable!! I am just curious to see what everyone else is doing. Are you allowing family to hold your baby? Are you letting people come in your house? Am I just being insane? I don’t feel like I am but who knows. I am a new mom and just trying to do what’s best for my baby. Thanks so much!