Is it complicated or what the hell is going on am I being used ??

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So me In this guy got together March 26 we met a couple years ago and started dating in March well we were doing good and some stuff happened and we broke up in may like this guy was always their for me and everything like I still love him and I told him

This was me and him btw like we were so happy

I apologized for everything I did he said I did nothing wrong he didn’t wanna be in a relationship with anyone right now but like we were still having sex and everything after we broke up and I stay the night with him I help his family out and everything like does he not realize that I am good for him even his family tell him that I am than he was full blown honest and said no more having sex than a week later we had it again like I don’t understand why is he doing this if we are supposed to just be friends not to mention the fact that he kisses up on me and everything I really don’t understand he told me when we were together that I could be his shoulder to cry on and everything like I just want him back but why is he still having sex with me if we are just friends why than I tell him and I keep telling how I feel and he don’t wanna talk about it I’m to the point where I wanna find that one and I do believe he’s the one and imma have faith I love him to death but doesn’t this all sound fishy ??

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Hes doing it because you're allowing it. The better question is why are YOU doing this? If you know he doesnt want to be with you and commit to you then why are you lowering yourself and having sex with him. Dont get me wrong, casual sex is great but it doesn't seem like you are wanting that. Hold your head high and allow nothing less than respect, he doesnt respect you if he uses you for companionship, aex and support but wont commit to you.  He is wanting to be able to have sex with other women and still hold onto you, cut the shit and stop allowing it. You deserve better and if he cant give you the love you deserve them someone else will.

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You're  allowing it... point blank.    if the guy is  already showing trash signs  in 2 months he's trash..

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Baby girl... alot of us have been there! Please dont trick yaself into thinking your worth more to him than u are by “reading into things.”. Oh he “takes me around his family”, “we hng out” “he treats me nice and we have sex”.  No ma”am been there done that. Dont sell yourself short. What you are doing is like.... going to work... even though they said they not hiring😎. And you hope to get a pay check.
    My suggestion go watch Asha C on youtube she covers this scenario. Dont be a “PIck Me-isha.” basically begging a man to see your value cuz he wont.

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Because he wants the sex, the commodities and convenience of a girlfriend that's there to pleasure him and help him and his family, without the responsibilities that a relationship brings, and especially without the exclusivity a girlfriend would expect. 
The real question is why you're settling for this. No he's not changing his mind. Please, see the situation as it is. He is TELLING you what you mean for him, and its not a lot. You've already said you're too good for him so why are you wasting your time and energy in this dead end situation?

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To him... youre free labor, free companionship... free sex without commitment while he plays the field and finds what he wants. It hurts to hear... but it will save u in the long run! 
       Never give your time, energy, effort, body away for free.... wihout getting what u need and want. Respect yourself!

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I wish I had had someone in my life to teach me! Best wishes my dear! Save your energy for the man thats willing to give you... just as much as you give him and even more❤️. They exist. They are out there... but youre not gonna find them when your distracted by giving to someone who doesn’t want you.

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You’re giving him everything without him having to be in a relationship with you. If you want to be with him you tell him, if he doesn’t want to be with you, leave. It will be hard, he’ll probably sweet talk you or give you some sob story, but trust me, he is using you, don’t allow him to, it will only lead to more pain and confusion. I was in a situation exactly like this once. He knows how you feel about him and he’s taking advantage of your feelings and your willingness to please him.

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He’s still having sex with you because he can, he’s a guy. You need to stop sleeping with him, he’s made it clear he doesn’t want a relationship, just sex.

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He wants to sex and you are having sex with him. He is using for sex.

Is it complicated or what the hell is going on am I being used ??

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