Stick it out or let it go?

Tammy

Hey ladies I need some advice... I’ve been talking to this guy for a year now and due to military orders and COVID we haven’t been able to see each other since we’re on opposite coasts. When I talk to him he flip flops between super adorable and flirty always asking for pics and loving them and being super closed off. He never hits me up first I always have to message him first and we never talk on the phone just over text ( I have known him for a while so he’s not cat fishing me) he has reservations about long distance relationships and is very cynical when I try and talk about visiting each other when we can. It also seems like he doesn’t mind if I don’t text him for days on end and just waits for me to msg him.. he never hits me up first. Recently he started telling me that he’s thought about us hooking up and is really open to the idea and I’m wondering if I should stick with it until we can be in the same place to see if it will work in person or if I should just quit now and move on... I’m falling hard for this guy and I don’t think he feels the same but I am so worried to ask him anything because I dont

want to lose him.... HELP I’m all fucked up!!