I went on a date on Saturday and we were making out and things were escalating and he told me that he couldn’t have sex because he has an STD (genital herpes). I am so lucky he told me. He kept his pants and underwear were kept on the whole time and he fingered me and gave me oral sex (he didnt have any cold sores). Could I get genital herpes from being fingered? I know if he was having an outbreak and touched himself then touched me it’s possible but the last time he could’ve touched himself was when he went to the bathroom at dinner 30 minutes before and I’m assuming he washed his hands. I have been driving myself crazy about this