Does anyone else's baby refuse to latch when tired?

I'm BF and when my daughter is tired she will cry for food but she WON'T LATCH. She will move her head from side to side quickly trying to find the nipple while I have to hold the sides of her head and force my nipple in her mouth while she's screaming. Then she eats for 10-20 mins and falls asleep calmly 🤯