I need some advice ..

Ladies my husband & I have been TTC since January. I had an appointment this past week & she told me more sex. I told my husband & now he says it feels like a job. He doesn’t like me using preseed because he doesn’t feel like we need the extra help. This past week we haven’t even had very much sex & now I’m peak & still nothing. I tried last night (lingerie, preseed already in so I didn’t do it infront of him, toy & nipple clamps) he made me wait an hour until his movie was done... I was asleep when he finally came in the bedroom & nothing happened. Now I’m being blamed because I’m in a bad mood towards him. He doesn’t understand I’m pissed because I tried so hard for him to just turn me down.. when all I needed was 10 minutes. How do I spice things up even more? Idk what to do.. :(