So a week ago I suffered a Grand Mal seizure I was 18 weeks. (Baby is doing good)

We are starting to get bills and the ambulance ride alone is $6,000 and it makes me sick to even think about the hospital bills. 🤢

I was in the hospital for 3 day having test after test to try and figure out why I’ve been actually been having focal seizures since February.

I am now a high risk pregnancy. We had to make the decision on starting medication and learn that it could cause baby to have a cleft lip or pallet or risk another seizure that could be fatal to baby. 😭😭

So we are basically using all our baby fund to pay for these bills. Because obviously we have to pay them.

But I have bought basically nothing for baby. 😬🙈

All we have is a crib since older sibling was a girl and born 4 years ago and baby is a boy. And we didn’t think we would be able to get pregnant again so we gave away a lot of stuff.

We live in a different state and 26hrs from our closest family. So basically I don’t plan on having a baby shower. Because honestly no one is going to travel that far and I don’t expect anyone to plan anything.

So my question is.... is it rude to just casually throw out my baby registry on Facebook? We’d be grateful for anything given but as said before we don’t expect anything from anyone.