Unhygienic parents

Jessica • 14/08 Mummy to Joshil.! Married to the most amazing man for 8 years.!

So my parents are extremely unhygienic they literally never shower not even once a month which I find disgusting. I’m due with my little boy on the 2nd of August so you think it’s unreasonable for me to say they can’t hold the baby unless they have had a wash? Also The house they live in is constantly untidy and dirty do you think it’s unreasonable to ask to meet somewhere else and not take him there?