I always wanted a gender reveal as along as I could remember. With Covid happening my dreams were crushed which I’m ok with (now).

I decided to just do a little one (balloon popping) in my front yard (9 people).

Ok here’s where I’m going with this my husbands cousin he’s close with we had our issues in the past but now we’re ok. He keeps asking when and if we’re doing a gender party. I don’t want him there. He’s rude and crude and always makes it about himself and his wife. It was going to be simple in and out lol but he never knows when to leave always helps himself to whatever he wants (which I think is rude) and to be honest don’t want him there or his wife and son. In all honesty I feel like he didn’t even care so why know ur asking everyone if we’re doing a party.

I already told my husband my wishes but he feels left out since it’s his family which I get but he knows we weren’t making a big deal about it. So just wanting some advice or ur thoughts. No judgement. TIA