Hey ladies I'm not sure where to post this but I'm just looking for stories or any supports/guidance I can get!

I've been TTC for 3 years now with the diagnosis of unexplained infertility. Both my husband and I have completely checked out normally after every test possible. We have tried every supplement and 4 rounds of medicated <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a>. We are at a loss and completely heartbroken.

The dilemma we are in now is whether to give <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> a shot or look into adoption. We have zero funding where I live for fertility treatments so it would be a one and only shot at <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. Adoption costs very little where I'm from but takes a long time. Where my heart hurts is I've always wanted the feeling of getting my BFP and being able to surprise my husband and family. And I've always wanted to have the pregnancy and birth experience. I just want a baby so badly to give me that family I crave but I'm so worried adopting will leave me feeling like I missed out on all the experiences I want. Please help!