When you don’t want to tell 80% of your family formally

So I’m past the three month mark in my pregnancy :) 🙏🏼🙏🏼💘I’ve told my mom MIL, FIL, and step sister and step dad and some close friends know . I plan on telling my grandparents tomorrow ... but tbh I don’t want to tell anyone else and I’m gonna lie to my grandma that I told everyone already bc tbh no one was excited so far and she forced her opinion too much last pregnancy (mc) on all the people “I have to tell” . I don’t plan to tell my dad or my sister formally we don’t speak or get along very well anyways , it will just make me angry and drain my energy. Nor do they deserve to know, they tried getting my fiancée deported and sister has been 0 help and voted for trump so go figure... I’d rather them just figure it out . And as far as everyone else aunts, uncles all shared the same opinion last time (that I need to tell my father) but I don’t need to do anything . The point of this post is just to gain insight from other or similar experiences and since I’m showing now, I just know the judgement that will come my way for not telling certain people but I mean ... If you don’t support my decision of my baby’s father and my fiancé , why should I include you in big news like that ? Right ?