Advice Toxic parent.

So it’s kinda hard for me talk about this but...I have a very toxic father. Every since I was a child I remember my dad being super overly protective over me. I have never been able to do much or enjoy much because of him being over protective and superstition over everything I do. Throughout my teen years. I rarely had any boyfriends, I never got to enjoy being out with my friend because he was always like no, what if this happens and this and that or I don’t want them talking about you. I remember one time my mother let me go out with some friends and he called me and my mom and asked where was I. Once he found out I was with some friends he snapped he cursed my mom out and drove around town looking for me and then cussed me out too. After this point I was dying to get to college and move away because I was suffocating from not being able to be happy. Once I went away to college he called me and accused me everyday of things or he wanted to give speeches and control my life while i was there. He even wanted to disown me once i got a boyfriend while in college. I was fussed At everyday because I wouldn’t break up with my boyfriend and that is a spending time someone else. I know this is a lot but I just needed someone else to understand me. He has since been more toxic since she purchased a car for me &I have decided that I’m going to live my life how I want . I get fussed out multiple times a week or he’s constantly calling asking where I’m at or who I’m with. There’s more but I just need some advice for now . Also I’m currently 22, College student & worker.