Is Porn Cheating?

Question

My bf is always watching porn, since he’s getting off to another woman’s body it feels like i’m not sexy enough, i don’t feel like enough for him. It’s even worse because i know it’s stupid and its normal. But it feels almost like cheating?
Am I not enough for his needs?

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I don't think it is. It literally has nothing to do with you. He's not doing it because of you.  It's like if you watch a romance movie it's not because he's not enough. 
I watch porn way more than my boyfriend does. It's just the easiest way to masturbate. It's not a big deal

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Just because society has normalized it does not mean it’s normal.

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Most humans want variety, but if you don’t like it that’s ok. Perhaps a guy who shares your values is better suited to you

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Not to me

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You can say it’s something you’ll not put up with in a relationship but he’ll probably do it behind your back. It’s fine for this to be your boundary but I think you should just break up if this is going to be a big problem for you. No point nagging and nothing changing. If someone had a problem with me watching porn, I would just ignore them or tell them to break up with me. It’s my body and my business. I think it’s an insecurity thing and I’d tell them it’s a them problem and not a me problem. But again, it’s also fine for this to be a dealbreaker for you and for you to break up with him.

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Its definitely not cheating. But communicate what ur telling us to him. Guys r visually so its literally no emotions involved. Maybe he thinks of u tho, maybe he would like it if u did this or that, or would watch porn with him. Just start out telling him it makes u feel like u arent good enough, and see what he says. I think they just feel like porn is this different thing.. idk but maybe he would like more head or maybe masterbating releases stress for him. U just gotta ask with an open mind i think but do admit ur feelings so he can help u work through them

Is Porn Cheating?

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