So...I’m a woman-on-top girl. Anyone else?

Okay so I’m fairly new to sex but I have been with two guys and I often felt confused about why the normative man on top sex didn’t work for me. And it wasn’t that amazing to be fingered either.

Recently I did a sex quiz (which sexual deviant are you) and it told me that I’m into dominance, rigour and I’m a ‘brat-tamer’ which actually kind of makes sense to me because I’m generally a natural leader and don’t like to be submissive. I really know that being on top of my current man would probably do the trick and I always want to try. I also sometimes get the urge to boss him around in bed but I don’t want to be mean. BUT I’m self-conscious about him seeing me from that angle and also if he’ll enjoy being dominated.

I’m just curious to know, do any other girls only get off from being dominating or on top? And if so what are some good ways to make being on top feel good for yourself as well as your man?

I thought of maybe blindfolding him to help with the self-consciousness and to have a little extra control but I’m new so I’d love to hear other ideas xxx