what would you do

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what would you do if you told your partner before even dating that you find something disrespectful and he did it and you told him you dint like it and then find out again and again and again that he’s done it? I’m uncomfortable and find it disrespectful if my partner follows porn stars or girls who post videos of their boobs or what not, i know people don’t care but every relationship is different and i’ve always said i don’t like it. We go on each others phones all the time and he’s done this 4 times and each time i tell him i don’t like it so he deletes them
but then follows more or lies saying his friend sends them to him on snapchat or instagram and it automatically follows them. We have a 2 year old and i’m pregnant and i just can’t ever forgive him for continuing to disrespect my feelings. 
Would you just let him know that you’re still hurt and he has to regain trust or leave. Or leave if he does it 1 more time?

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If it’s a dealbreaker for you then I think he’s already proved he’s not going to changed and doesn’t truly care how you feel about it

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You've given him a ton of chances and he still isn't changing. He's not going to change... He's going to keep trying to get away with it. He's not taking you seriously, he's not respecting you, and he's not respecting your relationship. 
Do with that what you will, but do not sit around expecting him to magically change his behavior this time.

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I feel the exact same way about that type of thing. My husband didn’t know how I felt about it until after I saw some things on his phone. We fought about it and talked about it. Our relationship was VERY rocky for 1 whole year because of it. If I found out he was disrespecting me and our marriage again I would 100% leave.

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Leave now why wait??

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I think we need to stop making demands of our mates over things like this. I wouldn’t want to put my man in a position where he feels like I’m treating him like a child. You’re telling no don’t do this. He decides to make his own decision.  You check his phone for these images like you’re checking up on a child. Then comes the reprimands on his behavior. You already told him how you feel multiple times so I guess you now need to decide if you’re willing to breakup over it. If you can’t forgive this, then it’s definitely time to move on.

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If one person is anti porn and one person is pro porn and they can’t meet in the middle, a relationship is not going to work unfortunately. I don’t agree that anyone should be forced to not use porn or forced to deal with someone who does.

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