so the first time my bf and i had sex i got bumps on my vag that were very painful and hurt when i pee. ive never had this happen to me before so i had to confront him ab it.. when i told him he said he got an outbreak too ( same time as me literally the day after we had sex) so i didn’t know to believe him or not.. when i went to the doctor about 3-5 days after they told me it doesn’t look like herpes and they did a swab test. the results came back negative and his came out positive!? i’m very confused and still don’t know if i have it or why my test came back negative.. this happened a year ago and never got them again since that one time.. me and my bf broke up and i had sex w someone new and he never got bumps or anything after.. pls help