I’m lacking the confidence I need 😔

Please someone give me tips on how not to feel like he’s gonna see something he won’t like. People tell me all the time “if he doesn’t like something about you then he doesn’t deserve you” well that doesn’t help at all 😅 I just wanna be a sex goddess but I can’t do that when all I’m thinking is “what if I smell?” “What If my asshole is hairy” “what if my fat rolls are shaking too much” “what If my ass don’t look good from the back” “does my face look weird when he’s fucking me” and the biggest one “WHAT IF I QUEEF”

I can’t even make eye contact for fucks sake.

Any tips or suggestions. What helped you??