So me and my husband have been together for 14 years or sex life has been amazing, but We have had our moments of being on and off when we first started dating and became parents. After having my third child I’ve felt less aroused and I do not get wet anymore even after our son I don’t. We’re tired all the time and have 2 little ones who need us 24/7 and interrupt when we’re about to do stuff. We don’t go out on dates or enjoy each other because we work and raise kids. We had a threesome before and at the time we were young and I got jealous after everything. Was worst mistake ever because after he added her on fb and he messed with her again(we were way younger back then). Now thinking of that makes me want to but this time I won’t get upset and I have nothing else to lose. I’m just stuck at what to do since I don’t even get in the mood for him anymore.