It’s weird, and probably a TMI

So my period was very irregular before using birth control, then I got on it and they just got worse. So I decided to stop using birth control all together. Me and my boyfriend are still having sex but using protection. About a month ago we did it without but he pulled out like way before finishing and we finished together. But my period was supposed to come 10 days ago, and still hasn’t, I haven’t had any symptoms of pregnancy, but it’s freaking us both out! I honestly don’t know what to do, any advise?