I am 22 and my boyfriend recently in the past few months has been distant in the bedroom. I am not normally a women that doesn’t care if I get it or not. For example with my ex I wanted it All the time like 2-3 times a day! But my boyfriend has been recently diagnosed with R.a rheumatoid arthritis which affects his energy etc but how do I help him? I love sex but even when he didn’t have these issues I Rarely finished and I am getting tired of toys they are Not the same. 😒😣