Over the last few months I’ve noticed my husband only want to have sex when he’s drunk, and it’s been where it’s from behind never looking at me and it’s in and out 5 minutes maybe less like I don’t get any pleasure at all and it’s when I’m already out cold for over an hour he comes crawling into bed and then starts to undress me to have sex, I’m so sick and tired of just him thinking he only needs to be pleasures and I don’t, he thinks he needs oral sex whenever he needs it but he hasn’t gone down on me in YEARS so when he was anything for me to suck his d*ck I say I don’t want to and he usually gets pissed off and starts an argument with me on Anything all because he ain’t getting a BJ.

I have told him over and over again on what I’ve noticed and that I would like to be pleasured and he o owes how to we have been with each other for 16 yrs.