Update ***** To I think my husband is gayšššš
So I confronted him about it last night I didnāt tell him exactly what I was talking about but I told him he needs to be honest with me and open up about things that he has not been telling me and to my surprise and he knew exactly what I was talking about. some of those messages were a while ago he brought up that incident which I donāt think if it was nothing he would know exactly what I was talking about when I had said āIām disgusted in you and what I seenā you need to tell me what happen . The main thing that I was worried about is when I seen in one of the text messages where it said the day that he was supposed to go pick up our daughters balloons for her birthday he said Iām going to be there alone then my husband responded as OK Iāll go in alone but Iām not coming alone as in I was going to be with him but IN THE CAR . but I did wait in the car and it took him a while to come out . The message already said do you want me to have my coworker step out because itās me and her in here I can send her out to do some stuff . But he swears up and down even the messages saying that type of stuff as if something was gonna happen didnāt happen he said that he just said that just to say it.ļæ¼ļæ¼
Keep in mind the guy had already said to before when he barley asked if he can give him some free stuff āthat I need you do me a favor if I get you the stuff for her birthdayā. ļæ¼
We sat down and talked he couldnāt even look at me he was fidgeting around not looking me in my eye trying to change the subject it took me two hours for him to say anything and that makes me or even more suspicious and he kept saying I donāt have nothing to talk to you about I didnāt do anything I have no idea what youāre talking about I have no idea what youāre talking about I donāt know what youāre talking about. All along I feel like he wouldāve never told me if I didnāt see the messages because he denied it for two hours straight before he finally said something about the situation and I think Kia already knew well I told him that I had messages and stuff to prove it so he needs to tell me. He knew I was serious about it . Then he finally said in his exact words he said that *when he went to go to his job to get some balloons for our daughters birthday he said that if he gave him some head that he will give him some free stuff for her birthday āļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ I am mediately jumped up and Iām like are you serious he saidYeah please donāt be mad I did it for us and Iām like so youāre telling me that you did that just for some damn balloons that doesnāt make sense I started crying of course I was upset then I can see it in him he started crying and I can tell that he was serious and he reacted the same way that he would if I wouldāve caught him in another lie that was actually true I can tell by his body language and he said that so are you really gonna judge me for this and youāre gonna call me nasty and everything while he saying this heās crying then he tried to leave out of the house I had to stop him from leaving out the house I told him I need answers and I also didnāt want to be arguing outside in front of our neighbors .
He was so dramatic about it then we come inside Iām of course emotional pregnant I start saying I feel like Iām a throw up like this is nasty and disgusting how could you do something like this and thatās when he just completely stops. And starts laughing and saying oh you think I was serious when I said that I wasnāt even serious that never happened I was just saying that because you will believe anything that was his excuse . ļæ¼That really does not make sense I think he just really thought about it and he doesnāt want nobody to know he didnāt want me to break up with him or judge him by that or anything thatās why he switched it up and he seen how I reacted to when he told me that because whoās going to make up something like that and even say something like that if it didnāt happen ļæ¼.ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼ļæ¼
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