Update ***** To I think my husband is gay😭😭😭😭

So I confronted him about it last night I didn’t tell him exactly what I was talking about but I told him he needs to be honest with me and open up about things that he has not been telling me and to my surprise and he knew exactly what I was talking about. some of those messages were a while ago he brought up that incident which I don’t think if it was nothing he would know exactly what I was talking about when I had said “I’m disgusted in you and what I seen” you need to tell me what happen . The main thing that I was worried about is when I seen in one of the text messages where it said the day that he was supposed to go pick up our daughters balloons for her birthday he said I’m going to be there alone then my husband responded as OK I’ll go in alone but I’m not coming alone as in I was going to be with him but IN THE CAR . but I did wait in the car and it took him a while to come out . The message already said do you want me to have my coworker step out because it’s me and her in here I can send her out to do some stuff . But he swears up and down even the messages saying that type of stuff as if something was gonna happen didn’t happen he said that he just said that just to say it.

Keep in mind the guy had already said to before when he barley asked if he can give him some free stuff “that I need you do me a favor if I get you the stuff for her birthday”. 

We sat down and talked he couldn’t even look at me he was fidgeting around not looking me in my eye trying to change the subject it took me two hours for him to say anything and that makes me or even more suspicious and he kept saying I don’t have nothing to talk to you about I didn’t do anything I have no idea what you’re talking about I have no idea what you’re talking about I don’t know what you’re talking about. All along I feel like he would’ve never told me if I didn’t see the messages because he denied it for two hours straight before he finally said something about the situation and I think Kia already knew well I told him that I had messages and stuff to prove it so he needs to tell me. He knew I was serious about it . Then he finally said in his exact words he said that *when he went to go to his job to get some balloons for our daughters birthday he said that if he gave him some head that he will give him some free stuff for her birthday “ I am mediately jumped up and I’m like are you serious he saidYeah please don’t be mad I did it for us and I’m like so you’re telling me that you did that just for some damn balloons that doesn’t make sense I started crying of course I was upset then I can see it in him he started crying and I can tell that he was serious and he reacted the same way that he would if I would’ve caught him in another lie that was actually true I can tell by his body language and he said that so are you really gonna judge me for this and you’re gonna call me nasty and everything while he saying this he’s crying then he tried to leave out of the house I had to stop him from leaving out the house I told him I need answers and I also didn’t want to be arguing outside in front of our neighbors .

He was so dramatic about it then we come inside I’m of course emotional pregnant I start saying I feel like I’m a throw up like this is nasty and disgusting how could you do something like this and that’s when he just completely stops. And starts laughing and saying oh you think I was serious when I said that I wasn’t even serious that never happened I was just saying that because you will believe anything that was his excuse . That really does not make sense I think he just really thought about it and he doesn’t want nobody to know he didn’t want me to break up with him or judge him by that or anything that’s why he switched it up and he seen how I reacted to when he told me that because who’s going to make up something like that and even say something like that if it didn’t happen .