Toxic

My mom is so toxic everything I do isn’t right in her eyes I’m constantly walking on egg shells wondering do I say this or not say that. I love her regardless but I feel as if I’m a burden. She mad at me because Im a stay at home mom & that i couldn’t take her dogs in due to we lived in an apartment 2 years ago. We recently got a house with a fenced I yard and she found out we got a puppy which I found him on a back road due to somebody dropped him off. She started yelling saying I should’ve took her dog instead of getting another one this & that. I just don’t understand why she can’t just love me and respect the choices that I make, she use to love me before she got married and that I moved out with my fiancé. I just wish we had that bond that we had years ago 😫.