He knows what I like but just won’t do it 🤯

My SO doesn’t really moan or talk during sex. I’ve asked him to but he won’t, and when he does happen to moan it honestly doesn’t sound hot and I feel bad for feeling like that but it’s true.

He doesn’t ever take my shirt or bra off. I’m always the one who has to do it. I usually have to place his hands on my tits or body. I’ve told him before I really like that. But he doesn’t really care to do that himself which is bit of a turn off to me.

I just want to be called sexy and have his hands and eyes all over me without me having to tell him and he KNOWS this but won’t do it 😰

And he’s not shy or anything like that. On some occasions he likes to slap me and put his hand over my mouth, which is ok but I want to feel like he is turned on by my BODY. It doesn’t help that I’m not SUPER confident about my body myself. I only have B cups and I need to tone up a bit. But I still know I’m hot just not super hot know what I mean?

It’s to the point that I have to look at my own body during sex and just imagine him feeling turned on by it, in order for me to orgasm.

Why I gotta imagine it tho? I feel he isn’t really that into my body 😢 and I’m always the one to initiate sex too 😢

I know if I try to talk to him AGAIN he won’t change. Because we’ve been together for years and had a lot of these talks. Unless there’s something different I could say?

Maybe I’m expecting too much? Idk what do you all think?