I feel left out. How can I make myself fit in?

All the girls around my area are so obsessed with long weave , long eyelashes, super long nails, and makeup and I can’t make myself like any of those things. I’m more of a natural type girl & I love looking simple. When I’m around my friends I feel like they kinda put me on the back burner cause I don’t look like them. How can I make myself like those things to fit in when I’m around them? Even guys are more on them because they’re all made up and they just look at me like “oh you’re pretty” but they look at them as “stunning”

Even my boyfriend always ask me why I don’t ever get long hair to my butt or the fake eyelashes... i feel like he would leave me for a girl who has all of that.