Would you be concerned if you and your SO didn’t have sex in over 6 weeks?

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We don’t live together and we only see each other about twice a week since corona. We used to have sex at least 1-2 times a week, and now it’s been over 6. I didn’t push him to give me an explanation, but when I brought it up he said he’s sorry and he doesn’t feel like it. It doesn’t bother me, our relationship is more than sex but still... don’t know if I should be concerned and have suspicions or not

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My bf and I aren’t living together at the moment either but it would be totally weird if we didn’t have sex for six weeks but that’s us. If it’s not bothering either one of you and nothing else has changed, like you two still spend time together, I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s okay to just be happy in each other’s company. There’s something comforting in that.

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Yes it would bother me, but it could be that he’s stressed or depressed or honestly just not in the mood. If you were only having sex 1-2 times a week before when you were seeing each other regularly, he may just not have a high sex drive. 
Try talking to him. Be as considerate as you can, but in a relationship you should be able to talk about sex. Don’t try to pressure him into it, just see if he’s doing okay, as again this could be a sign of depression or being too stressed.

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My husband and I have rarely had sex since conceiving our son three years ago. After he was born, I wasn’t comfortable with it and we were exhausted. We had sex once after four months without. I’m now 35 weeks pregnant because of that one time. So we haven’t been intimate since (I’m not a fan of pregnancy sex) and we’ll wait quite a while after baby is born. Maybe once I find my body and myself (feel I’ve lost me since becoming a mom) and he gets a vasectomy, our sex life will pick up again.

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I’m pregnant and we still dk it at least twice a week even when I’m not fully up to it. My bf won’t leave me alone lol. We have a healthy sex life and relationship so it’s not like he’s forcing me or anything lol but man is he annoying at times 😂
I would think 6 weeks is a lot. My bf would probably keel over and die lol. Unless I had just given birth.

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We don’t have a ton of sex because I’m pregnant and it freaks us out that the baby’s in there 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂. We both take care of ourselves, but it’s just not the time we want to be doing the nasty right now lol. Are you pregnant? He might feel some type of way about that. Maybe he’s been stressed out over something else, and just doesn’t feel like being intimate? The way I see it, is if the love and trust are there, no need to worry if you go through a period of having less sex.

Would you be concerned if you and your SO didn’t have sex in over 6 weeks?

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