Is anyone waiting till birth to find out what you're having?

I need genetic testing done so I can learn the gender as early as 12-13 weeks. It's my husband and my second child together but overall the last as it's my 5th and since I have genetic factors I don't want to have kids after 35, and ill be turning 35 twomonths after this baby is due.

My husband wants to wait till the anatomy scan around 20 weeks to see if he can tell before they say something. BUT they may not let him in yet due to Covid. They allow FaceTime/ video chats and recording but he wants to be there. Otherwise he wants to wait till birth.

I wanted a gender reveal and want to know asap. But I've also learned every gender of my kids and with this being my last I think it would be cool to wait till birth.

What would you do?

And for ladies waiting, what made that decision for you?

Thanks!