This guy and I started hooking up this summer after we met at work. He knows that I don’t date because I made that clear when we first started doing stuff together. I told him that because he’s usually kind of a man hoe (new girl every week and such) so I thought it would be a relief to him to know that I don’t catch feelings easily and wasn’t gonna be weird abt the fact that we were hooking up.

He know has started calling me out of the blue to ask how my day is (which is super sweet but not something a “just hook up” does). And just last night when I told him I didn’t feel like having sex (we could still do other things I just didn’t feel like having sex) he said that he doesn’t want it to be just about the physical stuff. He’s also asked me to dinner - and I don’t know what to do