So we went on vacation with my family last week. Side note, I had already been up at camp for a week by myself with the boys and my aunt. The first day my husband was there he overindulged on alcohol (he never does this so his tolerance is not what it used to be) and spent the entire night throwing up. He was pretty much useless the day he drank and two days after because of his hangover. He spent the rest of our vacation cranky and unsocial, having an attitude when I asked him to help me with our two kids. He pretty much sat on his phone playing a game. Now, I think he was embarrassed about the puking incident and that put him in a mood, but still does not excuse the behavior. We went and played mini golf as a group and he was constantly telling off our 3 year old and being miserable. So I waited until we were alone and told him off, said if he was just going to be miserable then he should not have bothered to come. I just got a phone call from my cousin checking in asking if he had been ok, because he was not himself and just seemed annoyed with being there and avoided everyone, and didn’t do much with me or the kids. I am tempted to tell him this so he knows that his attitude and mood was picked up on by others. Or wondering if I should just leave it alone. I did tell him I would have appreciated having more help while on vacation because that upset me, but I just found out the rest today. He is normally a more hands on father and more social, but he just seemed really off all week. I really think it was the day of overindulgence and embarrassment that put him off the rest of the week. I am hoping he learned his lesson, and that he is getting older the recovery takes a bit longer.

So question: let it go? Or mention the convo with my cousin?