We've got 2 beautiful girls (one being an infant) and my husband doesn't want any more kids. I'm still open to it, maybe in a couple years. Husband is ready to go get a vasectomy, though he understands I still want kids, so he won't get that done until we're on the same page. I'm happy with our girls, but I'd like to still be open to having more in the future instead of making a pretty permanent decision right now (yes I know vasectomies are reversible). I'm only 26, so I'm not ready to close the door yet. Have any of you or your husbands have any stories like this? Did you change your mind, one way or another? How did you come to an agreement?