This has caused many disagreements. He is excited about the baby that I feel like he is disrespecting my desire to keep the pregnancy quiet until the first trimester is over. I found out at 4 weeks and he IMMEDIATELY wanted to tell everyone even his buddies he goes to the bars with. I keep trying to explain just to be cautious, I only feel comfortable telling our immediate family, just in case. Whenever he talks to someone and asks to tell them and I say no he gets super pissed. I feel like he is being so selfish. I am a first time mom and have no idea what is going on with my body and just want to get out of the danger zone before announcing.

Even after announcing it to close family I wanted to keep things quiet and he sends a video of the transvaginal ultrasound to his mom and siblings. A video in the room! I couldn’t believe he did that! Am I wrong to be upset?