How long did you wait after marriage to have kids?
I have been with my husband for 5 years, married for 8 months. I keep going back and forth between wanting kids now and waiting a few years. I’m 24 and he’s 32, and we’re in such a good space in our marriage right now. I also am starting into my lifetime career, he’s already set in his career. We’re renters still, but plan to buy a home in the next year or two. It’s so weird we’ve had 2 miscarriages and they hurt me greatly, but when I think I want to start trying again...I’m like oh wait, we want to travel, let’s buy a house first, etc. i also feel infertile or something’s wrong. I also love how we have our time/money/etc for just us...he has told me numerous times he’s ready when I’m ready. It just seems like everyone around us is having babies. I just would love to hear people’s stories on how long they waited or didn’t wait and why they loved it! Thanks so much!
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