Is your man vocal during sex? (Read)

My partner is and has always been so quiet during sex. Sometimes he moans softly but not usually. I can never tell when he cums because of this. So I always end up having to ask that way I don’t keep going and hurt him. It drives me crazy. Sometimes I can tell he has came by how wet I feel or he will slow down (although I’m usually on top so the only one really in control) but I still always have to ask to make sure. 🤷🏼‍♀️I don’t know if I should discuss this with him or just accept this is how he is. We’ve been together 3 years and our sex really is mindblowing I just hate having to end it by asking him if he’s came or not.