Can I be a horrible, grumpy, and impatient mom for a minute?????

Ugh I am SO over these potty issues with my 3.5 year old. She’s in the middle of a regression. She was was oeeing and pooping just fine on the potty from November- April. Then the pandemic happened (which is why I think the regression happened because of the change in routine). So I’m trying to be patient but it’s like we’re at square one again. Peeing and pooping in her underwear, telling us no when she has to go, screaming when we make her sit.... so actually worse than square one. It absolutely miserable and beyond frustrating. I hate scrubbing pooping out of her clothes. I’m trying so hard to be patient but it’s so hard and frustrating. Just had to vent.