So, met some guy on tinder that I was texting for a bit. I told him before hand I’m not tryin to fuck anyone rn I’m not in a good place mentally i don’t wanna fuck anyone. He said he was good with it and just want friends too. Then we hangout and he tried coming on to me even tho I told him no . Then he tried to not use a condom and I told him I’m not tryin to get he needs to use one. But he ended up just putting it in anyways. I didn’t fight him on it or anything I just let him cause whatever I’m done fighting back when guys try I don’t have to energy for that anymore. So I let him. Then he asked if he could cum inside me I said no I’m not on birth control you have to pull out. He said ok then did it anyways. Then when I was pissed that he didn’t pull out he got all defensive and said it’s my fault that I feel good so he didn’t wanna pull out. Then I said whatever now I have to get plan B you gonna help me buy it ? He said he don’t have any money n don’t wanna help buy it either. Is this rape? I feel so violated and I’m trying to take the whole situation in. Who just cums inside someone without their consent and knowing they aren’t on birth control? And doesn’t wanna buy plan B. Is this rape? It wasn’t forced but it feels like rape. Has anyone else had this happen?