Self pleasure and sexual pleasure

Tmi warning.

It’s sad to admit even to myself that I don’t get much pleasure from clitoral stimulation fingers, vibrator. Nothing. My clit is very small and doesn’t give much, I’ve never climaxed from touching myself in that way. Luckily I can finish from penetration, but only with a toy. I’m a virgin but I’m most likely going to lose my virginity to my current boyfriend. If I can’t pleasure myself from touching my clit, I can’t expect him to. But how do I go about it? Let him try? Maybe he’s magic... but I don’t want to just say “nothing happens if you touch my clit” help a girl out? Any tips or tricks?