Is it normal for a guy to want to choke me with a belt?

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I started talking to this guy on Bumble but we’ve only FaceTimed so far. He told me he wanted to choke me with his belt while fucking me. He also said he wanted to spit on me and hit me while going down on him.. is this normal?

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I would trust no stranger to put a belt around my throat. 🙅🏻‍♀️

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I feel like this is the stuff you open up about when youre in a relationship and know the person well enough to trust them with something like choking or hitting. If its a stranger on a dating site talking like that id say thats a red flag for a potential predator/abuser. Please dont see this person

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my boyfriend does this, but i've been with him for two years and trust him not to take it too far. 
i wouldn't let a person i barely know do that because i wouldn't trust them.

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Uhhh no not at all! I feel like that is stuff you open up about your kinky fantasies, definitely not just over FaceTime! I’d be cautious and go with your instincts! Seems a bit forward and extreme to me!

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I wouldn’t trust anybody I don’t know well to do that. But I’m also not into that stuff 🤷‍♀️ I had a guy slap me during sex and we’d never agreed to that so guess who never saw me again. My partner is the only one I’ve allowed to choke me because I trust him and we have discussed limits beforehand.

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I LOVE BDSM and I appreciate you guys being upfront about the personal and sexual interest before getting into the bedroom 
But there is a level of being too upfront saying I like this and you might to but I will respect your personal boundaries and interest is one
Saying I want to do this to when I fuck you is a flat-out red flag

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It’s a dom and degradation kink. A lot of people are into it. I def wouldn’t even consider it with someone I don’t even know though

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Nooot really.....  Umm it’s okay if you like kinky stuff in the bedroom, but the spitting sounds degrading to me. My boyfriend chokes me with his hands and I love it, but with a belt 🤔 idk. Only of you’re into it.

Is it normal for a guy to want to choke me with a belt?

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