UPDATE: if any of you are interested 😅 he’s now trying his hardest to get back on my good side, but won’t apologise and agree that he’s in the wrong. So I’ve decided I’m gonna guilt trip him a little. This whole week I’m going to do as much as physically possible at home, and show him that it’s not just me being lazy. Maybe when he sees me drop dead every night in bed and be barely alive will he realise what’s going on. But he’s getting the cold shoulder. Wish me luck as I’m a softie and just not cuddling him at night made me cry 😅

My husband and I are happily married, we have our ups and downs and obviously now me being pregnant I’m over sensitive and emotional like crazy. I’m trying my best. From the beginning he wanted me to relax as much as I can, especially now that I’m working in a busy office, full days and over time. I’m suffering from morning sickness, fatigue and headaches. So when I come home, I end up in bed within 5 minutes. Today he said that I should be happy that I don’t have bad pregnancy symptoms so to stop complaining, oh man how much I wanted to hit him right there and then. And now he’s had a go at me that I use my pregnancy as an excuse to not do anything at home so he knows that when I’m further along or with the kid I won’t do anything at home. I’m just gobsmacked. Literally no idea if to let the tears just go or be angry and pack my shit (obviously won’t do that). But to be honest, I just needed a rant. I know that I’m not doing a lot at home, but I can barely stand for 5 minutes without getting dizzy and wanting to puke... but he just went from supportive to a bum hole. Am I in the wrong? Should I be scrubbing the house and just let him play games after work? Or expect him to take the load until I feel better?

Thank you to anyone that read it to the end 😅