Has anyone had to tell a family member that they aren’t allowed to come to the wedding?

I’m honestly at the point of telling my father I don’t want him there. 😭💔 and it is breaking my heart it’s only 10 ppl at the wedding and 20 at my reception. I’m only having. A reception because I really want a first dance and a daddy daughter dance.

But with masks being required my father is refusing. Also there’s no alcohol allowed at my venue. He’s saying he will sneak it in.

Not to go to deep into my family’s relationships let’s just say everyone is divorced and has a rocky relationship with each other.

My dad and step mother who’s separated... won’t text me back. Like at all. If they do it’s to argue or complain about the other adult. I have told everyone in my family there is no fighting it’s MY DAY. I will pull that card all day if I have to. But even my FH asked if it was worth it. He sees me stressed and I have called him crying so much lately because of it.

This is now how I pictured my wedding planning would go.

Also my sisters I have through my step mom are my mini bridesmaids.

I’m lost I don’t know what to do....