Hey ladies! Here’s what’s been going on and let me know if you think he’s cheating.

Me and my boyfriend have been together 1yr 7mo. I am 21 he is 24 we work together have lived together since the third or so month dating. At first we never had any trust issues of any kind for the first year and 3ish months. Then it all went to hell.

first instance:

As i was going through his snapchat a couple months ago (bad i know) i found this

now he SWEARS that the first one isn’t what it seems he was just making conversation and the second one he said that it was his brother on his phone. Keep in mind his brother is engaged!!

this same day I found loads more of girls in his snapchat but no text saved so no proof of foul play but he doesn’t have friends so texting girls is out of character. of course he disagrees.

today i found this

if you can’t tell this is showing he changed his settings to automatically delete their chats after opening. sketchy... he says they were just talking. also that he never changed his settings it must of happened on accident. again out of character.

i truly don’t know what to believe he swears he hasn’t been talking to other girls i just don’t know what do y’all think?

UPDATE!!!!

well i thought y’all deserved to see this as much as i did for helping me stop being such a dumb, naive, stereotypical, doormat. 😂

After months of this shit I have finally got a confession and it finally feels like I can breathe again. the agony of not knowing for sure was what was killing me. This relationship was truly making me sick.

(funny side note: He has the audacity to say after all this that he wouldn’t date me again bc he doesn’t want to be with someone that looks through people’s phones!!! 😂😂 he made me this way y’all let me tell you i LAUGHED)