So Me and my husband currently live with my parents. While we are building our home for a few months. I’m 16 weeks pregnant and it’s been rough. I have hg, and I’ve just felt awful. My parents are really cool and I’ve always been open with talking with them even as a teen. Lately it’s been hard. I feel like my husband doesn’t want to be around me, we haven’t had sex in probably 2 months... I honestly don’t know when the last time was, I tried early in my pregnancy to do it even though it hurt and I didn’t enjoy it and I’m not in any kind of a mood at all. I think a lot of it’s hormones and a lot of it puking daily multiple times. Well tonight my husband went to his friends to have a bbq and play games and honestly I’m hurt he didn’t even think to invite me but whatever. He works at home due to COVID and so do I. But I never see him. we both are off at 4 and he plays video games with his friends and doesn’t even come to bed til I’m asleep. I feel like an awful wife and I feel like because I’m not having sex with him that he’s just over it. I know I’m emotional and probably over exaggerating, but I feel really hurt. We use to do date night every Tuesday so we could spend one on one time before baby and the past month we end up doing game night with his friends and he says that counts. Well I was talking with my dad who’s sweet and my mom who’s blunt and sometimes does t know when to shut it, but she’s honest. And my dad and I talked about me being more open with how I’m feeling with my husband and asking him how’s he’s feeling and maybe setting a time for us to both be in bed. Which I loved. And my mom said “ you just need to suck it up and have sex with him or he’s gonna find another women to be with and he’s never going to want to have babies with you again” which first of all I think is awful for her to say. But I can’t say for the past few months that’s not on my mind. I feel like he’s not interested in me because I’m not providing that. But I don’t want to have sex even more now because I hate that he does t want to just be with me. That he can’t just come to bed at a decent time and cuddle without it being about sex. Now that I’m 16 weeks and feeling a tiny bit better when I do I don’t want to do stuff because I feel like it’s not about our love and being intimate TA about him and his blue balls and I just want my husband back and no one tells you how hard pregnancy is. I love my baby but I’m so tired of this.