How can I get my SO to give me oral?

Ok so we have been married for for 7 years and I can count on one hand how many times he has gave me oral. Now don’t get me wrong the sex is good but at times I just want him to lick and suck the clit. That’s all I want! I do give him oral and that’s because I want to and I like giving and he loves it when I do. I even sometimes lead his hands but he’s just to heavy handed..I can do better with masterbating with my own fingers. I love my husband with all of my heart I just want a little bit more action with his tongue and my clit. Help me Somebody!!!