Dealing with pressure

Christine • Mom to a beautiful daughter

My faincee and i have been together for almost 10 years. We are currently trc baby 1 and have been for 2 months or 3 maybe, its getting frustrating cause my mother is putting pressure on us cause we havent gotten pregnant yet, tellimg me there must be something wrong if we havent gotte pregnant yet and i need to try getting drunk while ovulating, and everyone else is making comments that we are never going to have one. Its frustrating cause it hasnt been an easy 10 years. My fiancee is epileptic and has anxiety, he also tried a medicine for anxiety that reacted badky in him and made him suicidal and it took 3 years and therapy to get past that one, like we are trying but they are putting so much stress on us its killing his sex drive cause he thinks my mother will hate him if shes not a grandma soon. How do you deal witb the pressure of people making comments about your uterus?