Need some Advice: TMI post

I apologize in advance for the TMI, but I figure we are all TTC so Im sure nothing is off limits at this point...lol.

My partner and I have been trying to concieve for about 3 month now. I am 39, and he smokes (I know, I know...trust me, Ive tried) so I know it is most likely gonna take some time.

My question involves ejaculation. When he climaxes he doesnt "spuirt" as much as it just comes out...the volume of seamen is good, but there is not alot of force behind it...so sometimes when he pulls out after sex alot of it comes out, or eventually runs out. Does anyone have any advice for what I could do. I ordered some "concieve" fertility lube and it will be here before we try again next month. I have heard also that female organism during sex will help, but I am not usually able to time it to match him.

Any advice is welcome...thanks in advance.