So my husband recently started to travel 3-4 days a week for work, and we have a 3 year old son who attends daycare 5 days a week.

I work full time as well, half at home, half in the office. I legit do everything for this family, and when I ask him to help with something, it’s a constant eye roll, or shaking of the head.

Obviously 100% of the responsibilities fall on my shoulders when he is not there, but my feelings when he is home, is he should alleviate some of the responsibility off of me. Give me a little break, take a bath time routine, or a getting ready for school session, give momma time to do something for herself.

His response was, I’ve busted my butt all week, I expect to be able to relax when I get home, I shouldn’t have to take on more when I get home.

I feel he isn’t even really present when he is home either.

I’m still doing every single thing anyways - and not by choice ..

And now I’ve been in a shitty mood since he’s said that and he just asked me what was wrong, and I told him that if I knew marriage and family life was going to be like this, I would have thought long and hard about not putting myself in a situation that would make me feel like this... and then his response is - yea me too.

Ahhh! Just frustrated!!