So i have 3 options but id prefer to do one of the first two.

1.) Room with this girl who lives in Kentucky and would move to my city. I'm not to sure how steady her income is, right now but shes in her own apartment so i know she can afford something. But after video calling her it seems like shes trying to run from her problems in kuntucy. Her old room mate kicked her out because someone either was asking for rent twice or wasnt paying their rent. (The story didnt add up to me) im not sure how clean she is and i think they argued about cleaning one time and this is what started the rent issues. But obviously if she spent the time to move here id ask her to email me the last 3 pay stubs so i knew she'd be able to afford it but the story not adding up sketches me out anyway. But other than that shes really sweet.

2.) Room with my cousin whos a guy, my dad wouldnt like this because their is family history there thats REALLY bad. But he has a steady income and i know he wouldnt bother me to much as a roommate. Im not sure how clean he is. I also dont want him to ever hear me having sex.

3.) Keep searching till I find what i want. But money could get really tight.