hey ladies!!!! so i just started dating this guy and i am head over heals for him. i mentioned to him that i loved it how he picked me up slightly when we hugged after not seeing each other for 2 weeks (thanks covid) but ever since then he has tried to pick me up more, and one time he tried to dip me (i’m teaching him how to dance) and he accidentally dropped me. i am a little over 200, and he isn’t a light guy (he’s fit, not absolutely ripped, but fit).... i have a lot of baggage when it comes to my body, i had worked really hard and lost 50 lbs, but right before i hit my goal, i went to college and the stress combined with long working hours on hw made it to where i gained it all back, even though i wasn’t eating very much. should i explain to him that i am worried he will hurt his back trying to pick me up? i love it when he does but i don’t want him to get hurt doing it...