I dont like to use the word hate alot but in this case its a must.

I remember the first time i met my boyfriends mother, she didnt welcome me in the door by saying hello or engage in much conversation with me. I found that strange as my mum is so welcoming and nice. I could tell from the get go she didnt like me, it didnt bother me as at that point i didnt expect my relationship to go far.......however here we are 2 years later with a home and a child. Even to this day that is the only time i have met his mother. When i was in early pregnancy my boyfriend and i had an argument, he rang his mum mid arguemnt and she threatened to drag me down a staircase....i refused to meet her until she apologised as i wasnt the cause of this arguement and spoke lovely to her on the phone. She never apologised, my partner always blamed me for not getting over it without an apology....UNTIL NOW

About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend took our baby boy to see his mum, our child suffers really bad with exzema so he asked her not to wear so much perfume. On arrival he said he saw basically a puddle of it on her chest, it lead to a huge arguement between them with his mother saying im not doing what 'she' says (meaning me) and said i could fuck off and so could my boyfriend. Hes asked her for an apology but she said she will never apologize. He now understands how hurtful his mother can be. There are a few other things shes said and done to cause arguements in out relationship, his sister also involves herself in calling me names too.

Ive never met his sister...shes coming this weekend to our home to meet our son for the first time. Im not thrilled about it tbh, i wont let my partner know that as he is exited. It will be hard smiling to someone i know has been so awful about me