Mother in law licked my babys paci?

Bri • Army national guard• mommy of 1

I was at my mil home with baby & out of the corner of my eye i saw my baby spit her pacifier out & my mil grabbed it & sucked it & put it in my babys mouth. I was beyond horrified & disgusted. Shes a 55 yr old smoker too top it off. Beyond pissed! But my husband is sayingg im too mean when i correct her 🙄 has anyone else experienced this? The bitch is crazy 😡